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Sharing advice I wish I was given before

Things Men Do Keep It Casual

Things Men Do Keep It Casual

Why he isn't making you his girlfriend.
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 28
Can Hookups Turn into a Relationship?

Can Hookups Turn into a Relationship?

This is a case-by-case scenario answer, however as Elliot Scott likes to say:
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 24
What to Do When Texting a Guy Who Won’t Meet Up

What to Do When Texting a Guy Who Won’t Meet Up

He never plans a date.
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 20
How Many Times Can You Be off and on Again with Someone?

How Many Times Can You Be off and on Again with Someone?

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” — Hazelden Foundation
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 15
Five Signs a Guy Is Stringing You Along

Five Signs a Guy Is Stringing You Along

Relationship advice with Elliot Scott.
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 10
He Cancels the Date Last minute

He Cancels the Date Last minute

What to do and not do.
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 5
Four Dangerous Reasons You Fall in Love Too Fast Too Soon

Four Dangerous Reasons You Fall in Love Too Fast Too Soon

Dating advice with Matthew Hussey.
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 3
Stop Accepting the Friendzone

Stop Accepting the Friendzone

When you want someone romantically, your friendship with them is a fraud.
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Patricia Vilchez
Nov 1
Why Do Guys on the Dating Apps Keep Flaking after Messaging?

Why Do Guys on the Dating Apps Keep Flaking after Messaging?

Good conversations on Tinder mean nothing.
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Patricia Vilchez
Oct 26
Why Would a Guy Say He Had a Great Time and Then Not Ask Me Out Again

Why Would a Guy Say He Had a Great Time and Then Not Ask Me Out Again

Chances are he didn’t have such a great time.
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Patricia Vilchez
Oct 21
Three Reasons It’s Hard to Leave a Toxic Relationship

Three Reasons It’s Hard to Leave a Toxic Relationship

Did you know that relationships are meant to enhance your life and make you feel appreciated and supported? Not have you feeling miserable…
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Patricia Vilchez
Oct 18
Why Being the Girl That Waits Around Isn’t Attractive

Why Being the Girl That Waits Around Isn’t Attractive

Don’t be a backburner woman.
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Patricia Vilchez
Oct 11
28 Lessons I’ve Learned in My 28 Years of Life

28 Lessons I’ve Learned in My 28 Years of Life

Life advice with Krissy Cela.
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Patricia Vilchez
Oct 7
How to Move on Without closure?

How to Move on Without closure?

A post worthwhile sharing with relationship coach Hritik:
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Patricia Vilchez
Oct 5
How to Cope with Being ghosted

How to Cope with Being ghosted

We all have experienced being ghosted, and it always happens when you least expect it of course.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 28
Things That Are Hard for People with Depression To admit

Things That Are Hard for People with Depression To admit

The depression chronicles.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 27
8 Secure Dating Behaviours That Make You Attractive

8 Secure Dating Behaviours That Make You Attractive

Relationship advice with Hritik.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 23
10 Years of Dating Apps

10 Years of Dating Apps

Dating apps don’t mean the same thing for every user.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 20
Why Guys Will Never Give You a Straight answer

Why Guys Will Never Give You a Straight answer

Why men like to keep things vague.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 16
What It Really Means When He Says He Is Not a Big texter

What It Really Means When He Says He Is Not a Big texter

Everyone is a good texter until they hook up.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 13
Can You Trust a Drunk Text?

Can You Trust a Drunk Text?

An emailer asks the Uup pod how much she should believe drunk texts from a guy.
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 8
Why You Might Be Outgrowing Friendships

Why You Might Be Outgrowing Friendships

Are you losing a friend?
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Patricia Vilchez
Sep 8
What to Do When They Don’t Want a Relationship but Still Keep You Around?

What to Do When They Don’t Want a Relationship but Still Keep You Around?

They are keeping you around cause you are staying.
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Patricia Vilchez
Aug 30
I Deleted All My Dating Apps One Year Ago

I Deleted All My Dating Apps One Year Ago

I’ve learned that I really don’t need online dating.
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Patricia Vilchez
Aug 18
Ten Truths That Changed My Life

Ten Truths That Changed My Life

Life lessons with Steven Bartlett.
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Patricia Vilchez
Aug 14
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